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Pilates, But Make It Strength

November 19, 2025
Pilates, But Make It Strength

Lately, it feels like everyone is choosing sides in the low-impact vs. high-impact conversation, as if your workout says something about your entire personality. Are you the person who lifts heavy and crushes intervals, or the person who prioritizes cortisol regulation and long walks? And stuck in the middle of that false divide is Pilates, which somehow still gets labeled as the “gentle” option.

But here’s the thing I’ve had to unlearn: Pilates is strength. Full stop. Those slow, controlled movements light up muscles traditional training barely taps. The shaking isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s your stabilizers finally being invited to the party. I spent years thinking Pilates was something you added to your real routine, and now I can’t unsee how foundational it actually is.

What feels especially relevant right now, in a world where so many of us are dealing with autoimmune conditions, burnout, or just chronic fatigue from trying to be everything to everyone, is that Pilates challenges you without wiping you out. It’s effort without aftermath. Strength without the system overload. And that kind of consistency-friendly movement is wildly underrated.

Pilates also forces you to pay attention in a way high-intensity workouts sometimes let you bypass. You can’t rush through it. You can’t zone out. You have to listen. Which, ironically, is exactly how you get stronger when you have a chronic illness or a sensitive nervous system in the first place.

So if you’ve ever brushed off Pilates as “extra” or “not enough,” consider this your reminder that low-impact does not mean low-strength. Sometimes the savviest thing you can do for your body is choose the kind of hard that supports you, not the kind that depletes you.

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